This is the ritual we follow when we review and resign a contract. Basically it started out as once a year unless we made a major change to the contract. For example, if you decide to remove safe words, you would need a new contract. If we change a hard limit, we sign a new contract. It is also a nice way to reinforce the relationship periodically. This ritual was based on several online sources. I always provide my slave with a brand new day collar for this ritual as I feel it adds a bit to the special event. We always do this ritual with just the Master and slave present, but it wouldn’t take much to adjust this and turn it into an event with guests.
As a setup, I like to put on some soft music in the background and I enjoy using lots of candlelight to enhance the feeling of the ritual.
Preparations:
- Bowl of warm scented water, sponge, and small towel
- Plate with votive candle, Incense/incense holder and feather
- Scented Oil
- Fur or soft cloth
- Collar and Contract with pen
At the start the slave stands in back of room fully nude. The Master is in front, with all preparations completed.
Master
There comes a time in the life of most women when they feel incomplete, they recognize that there is something missing in their lives. If the woman is blessed, a man comes into her life to fill that void, a man who has felt that same emptiness and who understands her needs. Today is just such a day. Today, souls will combine, and lives will be made whole.
<name of slave>, will you join me?
Slave
“Yes, sir”, or “I would be honored, Master” or something similar.
Slave steps forward and kneels before the Master.
Master
<name of slave>, it is my intention to offer you a contract today. This contract is a binding agreement between two souls, and not to be taken lightly. Signing this contract binds us together even tighter than the sacred vows of marriage we have honored together for many years. Signing this contract indicates your desire to live a life of honest and open communication, laying bare your every thought, feeling, need, and desire to your Master. Signing this contract indicates your desire, your need, to live a life of submission and slavery to your Master, serving His every need and whim, and it indicates your trust that in that service your Master will never diminish or demean you, will never abuse you, will care and provide for you always and forever.
<name of slave>, do you come here today of your own free will and volition? Slave answers.
<name of slave>, do you understand what it means to assume the mantle and role of submissive and slave? Slave answers.
<name of slave>, do you understand that in signing this contract you become a reflection of me, that all of your actions from this day forward are on me, are my responsibility? Slave answers.
<name of slave>, do you, of your own free will, take me to be your Dominant, your teacher, your Master? Slave answers.
Present and sign the contract.
Master
Stand slave and present yourself for my viewing pleasure.
Slave stand and assumes the viewing position, the master will walk around her and enjoy the sight of His new slave. The Master will then resume His position before her, and hand her the prepared bowl of water.
Master
With this water your past is washed away. All the pain, fear, loneliness, and sorrow that has weighted your soul for so long is washed from you.
The Master gently washes the slave from feet to head. He then quickly dries her.
Hand her the incense bowl to hold. Light incense from votive candle while she is holding it.
Master
With this smoke your prayers and dreams are lifted to the sky. May all those that are touched by it know what is within your heart.
Feather the incense smoke onto the slave, beginning at her feet and working up. Then set the bowl to the side. Take anointing oil and hand to slave, she will then pour oil into the Masters hands as needed..
Master
With this oil your Master blesses you; I pledge my heart, my mind and my soul to your well-being. I give freely all that I am and all that I ever will be.
Anoint the slaves body, working from the feet up. Then take a soft cloth or fur.
Master
I pledge my knowledge, my protection, and my property to your well-being, to guide you, protect you and provide for you and for all your needs.
Now rub her entire body dry. Next, retrieve her collar and hold it up before her to see.
Master
<name of slave>, with the placing of this collar around your neck and your acceptance of it, I vow to do everything I can to be worthy of you. I promise to hold you and keep you safe, to stretch you and give you flight, to respect the needs of our relationship above all others, to love you, honor you, support you in all things and be sensitive to your needs and desires. I acknowledge the trust you have placed in me and the responsibility that goes with my acceptance of that trust. I will never violate or even threaten to violate that trust. I acknowledge and accept with all my heart the gift of submission you have made to me. This collar will be a symbol of that which we already know: that you are mine, and by wearing it you will always be safe to be everything that you are.
Kneel my slave. Slave kneels.
Does this slave accept the conditions and responsibilities associated with receiving My collar? Slave answers yes or no.
Does the submissive/slave accept this collar of their own free will?
Slave
Master, of my own free will, with clarity of mind, heart and conscience, I surrender my life to you, submitting to your will in all things. I accept your collar as the outward and visible sign of my deepest joy: that I am yours. I gladly accept your authority and trust you to guide me on the right path. I vow to honor you with my every thought, word and action. I promise to stay with you, support you and fulfill your needs and desires as you allow. You are the center of my universe, the light of my life and the love of my heart. I give you my love, my heart and myself, now and always.
Lock the collar around her neck.
Master
<name of slave>, my submissive and my slave, I will never forget the responsibility that I have undertaken here. I am charged with your well-being in all you do. My decisions will affect you in every way. Your life is literally in my hands, and I will never shy away from that responsibility, but use the power you have given me wisely. I will never consider only myself. I will always remember that you will follow wherever I may go. I will not lead you into danger and I will be mindful that you will look to me in all things for guidance and teaching. I promise to learn from you what is good and safe for you, and be prepared to give as much, or more than I receive from you. The Master’s hand is a double-edged sword. It can give pleasure and it can punish. I will never forget that and will consider every facet of any situation before using that power. It will never be used in anger and will always be justifiable.
Help her to stand.
Master
Thank you for giving me the gift of your submission, my love.
With a kiss the ceremony ends.
Finis.